





In This With You
A Partner’s Toolkit for Supporting the Fertility Journey
If you’re walking alongside someone on a fertility journey, this guide was made with you in mind—the quiet supporter, the one holding space, offering presence, and carrying emotions.
Gentle prompts, grounding exercises, and love-note templates to help you show up with presence and care—especially during the Two Week Wait.
This toolkit is inclusive of all genders and relationship types. It’s for anyone supporting someone through fertility—no assumptions, no exclusions.
🧡 What’s Inside:
7 daily check-in prompts to deepen connection
3 grounding rituals for anxious days
"What to Say (and Not Say)" phrase guide
Templates for love notes & gentle journaling
Reflection questions for emotional clarity
Infertility can leave even the most loving partners unsure of what to say or how to help.
This toolkit isn’t about fixing anything. It’s about presence, emotional safety, and soft rituals that create connection—even in uncertainty.
A Partner’s Toolkit for Supporting the Fertility Journey
If you’re walking alongside someone on a fertility journey, this guide was made with you in mind—the quiet supporter, the one holding space, offering presence, and carrying emotions.
Gentle prompts, grounding exercises, and love-note templates to help you show up with presence and care—especially during the Two Week Wait.
This toolkit is inclusive of all genders and relationship types. It’s for anyone supporting someone through fertility—no assumptions, no exclusions.
🧡 What’s Inside:
7 daily check-in prompts to deepen connection
3 grounding rituals for anxious days
"What to Say (and Not Say)" phrase guide
Templates for love notes & gentle journaling
Reflection questions for emotional clarity
Infertility can leave even the most loving partners unsure of what to say or how to help.
This toolkit isn’t about fixing anything. It’s about presence, emotional safety, and soft rituals that create connection—even in uncertainty.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Can I use this even if we’re not in the Two Week Wait?
A: Yes! While the toolkit is especially helpful during the TWW, the prompts, rituals, and love-note templates can support connection at any stage of the fertility journey.
Q: Is this toolkit just for male partners?
A: Not at all. It’s inclusive of all genders and relationship types. Anyone supporting someone through fertility is welcome here.
Q: Do I have to print it?
A: No printing required. You'll receive a downloadable PDF that you can use on your phone, tablet, or computer—or print out if you’d like to write by hand.
How the Toolkit Helped
“I didn’t think I needed a guide, but this toolkit helped me stop second-guessing everything. It gave me a way to be present without trying to fix things. Honestly, it made me feel more useful during a time when I felt pretty helpless.”
“I’m not the most expressive person, but the prompts made it easier to show up in a way that felt natural for me. I used one of the love note templates and my partner actually cried. That moment made this totally worth it.”